By: Asma Patel

I am a leader. Leading has taught me a lot. It has helped me realize that it is a big responsibility. I have learned that it is important to create a safe space where people feel comfortable sharing their ideas. I have also learned that others deserve the same opportunity to lead.

It did not happen all at once. I started by joining the Semiahmoo Self Advocates and learning from the people there. They showed me how to advocate for myself and how to be a better leader. Community Development Services also helped me build my confidence and find new skills I did not know I had.

One of the things I am most proud of is helping plan a multicultural event. Our group named it World Connections Day. I had an idea that I really believed in. I wanted to create an event where people from different cultures in our community could come together and share with each other. So, I shared that idea with my group.

As a leader, I led by example by sharing my ideas openly and by inviting my peers to share their ideas too. With support from staff, we planned everything together. One of my friends did a dance performance that represents her culture. Another friend played music from different parts of the world. A gentleman from the community whom I met at my workplace came and gave a performance that celebrated his culture. We also planned food that showed the many different flavours found in our community.   There were many more activities that gave everyone a chance to celebrate who they are. For example: a photo booth with props and a map where people could pin where they were from.

Seeing it all come together was the best feeling. That is the best part of being a leader: watching the plan come to life. Working in a group where everyone gets to share and learn from each other.

I want people to know that everyone can be a leader. If I can do it, others can too. You do not have to be afraid to go for what you want to do. I hope my story encourages others to believe in themselves and become leaders too.