Here’s what they said: “This repressive legal code further reduces human body and sexuality into ‘colonies’ that can be invaded, tamed, and redeemed with the display of abusive power.”
KAPOW! Doesn’t that hit the mark?
This is such a description of the experience of so many people with disabilities. The tyranny and colonization of the body and sexuality, the utter control sought over the heart, mind, soul, and sexuality is clearly an abuse of power and abuse at the highest level. And this abuse is often built right into policy. The ‘system’ has the ability to criminalize and punish health sexual expression.
I remember a man with a disability who had been ‘caught’ with his boyfriend and was punished so severely that he never, ever, recovered. He thought himself dirty. He thought his desires sinful. He thought that his desire to touch was evidence of Satan in his life. No matter how much work was done, nothing could shift those views. He lives a desperately sad and lonely life.
I remember a woman with a disability who, when she was discovered in a relationship with a fellow that she’d met at the sheltered industry (as they existed back then) she was attacked and called the names expressly used against women with sexual agency, and now sees that, and this is a direct quote: Love is wrong, people hurt you for it.”
I remember the guy whose mother burned his fingers on the stove to punish him for masturbation. His fear is deep and his fear is legitimate.
I know that this article was about the decriminalization of homosexuality, something that a gay man really matters to me (and it should you too if you believe in freedom and equality) but it also gives a language to what was done with our power. What was done to people with intellectual disabilities. It reminds us when we believe that service systems, or parents, or guardians, or any other person believes that they have the right of ownership over another persons body, another persons heart and another persons choices.
“This repressive legal code further reduces human body and sexuality into ‘colonies’ that can be invaded, tamed, and redeemed with the display of abusive power.”