bars around the toilet
bars in the shower
doors wide enough to accommodate my chair
toilet on floor not hanging from wall
Those are my basic asks. This had been checked assiduously and everyone was confident that we were good to go. So we arrived at the hotel, tired from a full day lecture and a long drive. Rolled into the lobby to find that a wheelchair user couldn’t get from the lobby to the room because there were three steps up to the elevator.
To get up to the elevator we had to leave the hotel, go back into the parking lot push uphill to the next door, the door they brought luggage through from large tour buses, and then push up the really steep ramp leading to the door. It was hard to do. I usually push myself and rarely ask Joe for help but I simply couldn’t do the ramp. Joe himself had difficulty, even with my help making it up the steep slope to the door.
In the morning we went down for breakfast only to find that they had two huge luggage carts piled high with luggage and one cleaning cart blocking my way out. We moved the cleaning cart and then I carefully picked my way by the luggage cart really hurting my hand along the way. But I got by and I got out.
Then it was back into the lobby but something had happened to the door overnight and now it opened and closed quickly. I rolled back to the door because, again, the slope was steep and I had to use hands and feet to get up it. But the door would close just before I got there, the automatic sensor couldn’t see me. So it was down and back up, down and back up, down and back up, the third time Joe stuck his foot in the door and held it as it pushed hard against his foot to close. But I got in.
I went straight to the desk, told them that I hated going into hotels through back doors and that if they had one disabled entrance and a car park full of cars parked in disabled bays they shouldn’t be blocking that one door, I told them I had hurt my hand in trying to get by and that my hand was integral to my movement.
They stared at me.
Said not a word.
Just stared at me.
It is amazing what the privileged think is good enough for others. It’s amazing no one though that it might be a problem for people having to use back door entrances. It’s amazing that they call themselves accessible yet treat their disabled guests as second class citizens.
Let me give a hint. If what you think is good enough for others isn’t good enough for you … you are, without question a bigot.