by Alecia Emery
Self-advocacy has made a difference in my life and has helped me in many ways.
First, it was helpful to my family relationships. I learned that taking the initiative and calling a family member who had barely contacted me was important. Because I took the initiative and called, I started having contact with my sister, and we are closer than ever.
I am thankful that self-advocacy also taught me that even though I get scared, I need to keep trying. It has helped me look at life differently now.
It has also helped me be empathetic. I always think, ‘What would someone say if they were in your shoes?’ So, I always put myself in others’ shoes. I can feel the pain or whatever it is they’re feeling. It’s hard to describe.
Self-advocacy taught me a lot to guide me through life. I now believe it helps to set your mind to it, believe, and never put yourself down. Even if other people put you down, it doesn’t mean they are right.
Self-advocacy taught me to save money for myself instead of giving extra money away. I also learned how to use budget sheets and they worked. I couldn’t believe how much money I had been losing. I use the budget sheets every month now and it has helped me see where my money goes and how much I save. I am happy I’ve learned the skill of self-advocacy.
